M'masukulu ku United States, ogwira ntchito zachipatala amalimbikitsa ana omwe ali m'malo awo, komanso amagwira ntchito ngati alangizi awo ndikukhala ngati oyang'anira milandu pamene ophunzira akufunikira thandizo la nthawi yaitali. Ogwira ntchito zamtunduwu amaperekanso mgwirizano wofunikira pakati pa ophunzira, gulu lophunzitsa, ndi anthu ambiri.
Iwo amayang'ana kwambiri zotukula maphunziro ndi chikhalidwe cha ana omwe akuwasamalira. Chimodzi mwa izi chidzakhala pothandizira maphunziro awo, komanso kupezeka kwawo kusukulu nthawi zonse. Komabe, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko adzagwiranso ntchito ndi ana, sukulu, ndi makolo awo kuti azisamalira thanzi lawo lamaganizo ndi khalidwe lawo, komanso kuyesetsa kuwasunga.
Monga gawo la gulu lamagulu osiyanasiyana ozungulira ophunzira, adzagwirizana ndi oyang'anira sukulu ndi utsogoleri, komanso aphunzitsi.
Amagwira ntchito limodzi kuti apange ndondomeko zomwe zimapanga momwe sukulu imachitira ndi nkhani za chilango ndikuchita gawo lofunikira pazochitika zilizonse zoyang'anira zovuta zomwe zimachitika, komanso kukhazikitsa njira zothandizira maganizo pakufunika.
Gawoli la ntchito yawo likhoza kuphatikizapo kuwunika kuti awone ngati ana ali pachiopsezo cha kuvutika maganizo kapena kudzivulaza.
Adzapereka uphungu kwa ophunzira omwe akukumana ndi mavuto chifukwa cha kupezerera anzawo kapena mbali ina iliyonse yolumikizana ndi anzawo. Amathandizanso ana omwe amayang'anira nkhanza kunyumba ndikuyika patsogolo thanzi la mwana aliyense.
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Thandizo kwa makolo ndi mabanja
Komanso kupereka mitundu yosiyanasiyana yothandizira ophunzira, ogwira ntchito zachipatala pasukulu idzathandiza makolo amene akufunikira thandizo popereka zabwino kwa ana awo.
Atha kupatsa anthu mwayi wopeza zinthu zomwe zimathandizira mabanja m'njira zosiyanasiyana, kuyambira pakuthawa nkhanza kunyumba mpaka kupeza malo otetezeka okhala ndikupeza chithandizo chamankhwala.
Kusukulu, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko adzagwira ntchito ngati chithandizo kwa gulu la kuphunzitsa ndi utsogoleri pamene akufunikira uphungu wothetsera mavuto a maganizo kapena khalidwe la ophunzira. Monga gawo la izi, adzathandiza gulu la maphunziro kupanga ndi kukhazikitsa mapulogalamu ndi zochitika zomwe zimathandizira ubwino wa ophunzira.
Kodi wogwira ntchito zachipatala angasinthe bwanji?
Kwenikweni, thandizo la wogwira ntchito zothandiza anthu lingathandize gulu la ophunzira kukhala ndi thanzi labwino m'maganizo, koma angathandizenso kuwongolera moyo wawo wamagulu ndi malingaliro.
Atagwirizana ndi dokotala, aphunzitsi amatha kukhala ndi chidaliro pankhani yowona zizindikiro zilizonse zodetsa nkhawa pakati pa ophunzira awo ndikufotokozera zachitetezo chilichonse kwa anthu oyenera.
Izi zimapangitsa kuti ana ndi achinyamata omwe akusowa thandizo amathandizidwa mwamsanga, kotero kuti kuthekera kwawo sikulephereka kupita patsogolo.
Kaŵirikaŵiri n’chakuti thandizo lokhudza khalidwe la kusukulu limapindulitsa ana panyumba, ndipo amasangalala kukhala ndi unansi wabwino ndi makolo awo kapena owasamalira.
Kwa ogwira nawo ntchito, iyi ndi ntchito yopindulitsa kwambiri komanso yomwe imachitika mwa munthu, kotero iwo amakhala ndi ubale wolimba ndi anthu omwe ali nawo pafupi ndikumva kuthandizidwa kuntchito. Amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zambiri tsiku lililonse, ndipo ngakhale kuti milandu yawo ingakhale yokwera kwambiri, imapanga kusintha kwenikweni m'miyoyo ya ana, aphunzitsi, ndi makolo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ntchito yolimbikira ikhale yopindulitsa.
Maphunziro alipo, ngakhale kwa omaliza maphunziro m'magawo ena, koma anthu omwe ali ndi ntchito yokhazikika amavutika kuti apite ku koleji nthawi zonse kuti akaphunzirenso. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mayunivesite ngati Cleveland State apanga ziyeneretso zakutali zomwe zimagwirizana ndi moyo wotanganidwa wa ophunzira.
Omaliza maphunziro omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi ntchitoyi ndikudabwa kodi wogwira ntchito zachipatala amachita chiyani, mutha kudziwa zambiri ku Cleveland State University. Ziyeneretso za CSU's Master of Social Work zimamalizidwa patali, ndipo maphunzirowa ndi 100% pa intaneti.
Kuti apititse patsogolo maphunziro awo, ophunzira amamaliza maphunziro awo, koma ngakhale izi zimakonzedwa pafupi ndi kwawo, m'dera lawo.
Akamaliza maphunziro awo, nazi njira zingapo zomwe ogwira ntchito zachipatala angapitirire kuthandiza ophunzira omwe akuwasamalira:
Kupereka chithandizo pa umoyo wa mwana aliyense
Nthaŵi zambiri ana amavutika kuugwira mtima ndi kudzikhazika mtima pansi akapsa mtima. Ena amatha kuchitapo kanthu pakusintha kwa ziyembekezo kapena mapulani, koma kwa ena, ndizokhudza kudziletsa. Kusukulu, ogwira ntchito zachipatala amatha kupatsa ana uphungu womwe umawapatsa maluso omwe amafunikira kuti athe kuyendetsa bwino khalidwe lawo.
Izi zitha kuwathandiza kupitiliza maphunziro awo atsiku ndi tsiku ndikulimbikira kukwaniritsa cholinga, ngakhale moyo utakhala wodetsa nkhawa kapena wosayembekezereka.
Popanda kukhoza kupirira chitsenderezo china, ana amavutika kulamulira mmene malingaliro awo akusonyezera, ponse paŵiri kunyumba ndi pamaso pa ophunzira ena. Izi zingapangitse kuti makhalidwe ambiri oipa akhale chizolowezi. Kuchokera pa kuleka kufika ku nkhaŵa ndi khalidwe laukali, ambiri a ana ameneŵa amakwiya kapena kuchita zinthu zowononga, zimene zingakhudze kwambiri kunyumba, ndiponso kusukulu. Mwana akalephera kulamulira maganizo awo amakhala nkhani yaikulu kwa makolo ake, ubwenzi waukulu umenewu ukhoza kusokonekera, ndipo chifukwa chake, aliyense m’nyumbamo angakhudzidwe.
Ogwira ntchito zaumphawi amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana zochiritsira, kuphatikizapo uphungu, pamene ana amalimbikitsidwa kuzindikira nkhaniyi. Mwachitsanzo, mwana akadziwa kuti ndi makhalidwe ati omwe akukhudzana ndi nkhawa, amatha kuona vuto lisanakule. Komanso, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko amatha kupereka upangiri kwa ana pakuwongolera zizindikiro adakali aang'ono. Mwachitsanzo, ana amene angazindikire maganizo oipa ponena za mmene alili angathe kuwamvetsa bwino ndi kuyamba kuphunzira mmene amakhudzidwira ndi kupsinjika maganizo.
Kusukulu kungakhale malo ovuta ndipo kuphunzira ndi ntchito yolimbikira, koma ndi kuwongolera malingaliro amphamvu, ana amatha kuchita bwino pamaphunziro. Angathe kulimbana ndi kupsinjika maganizo kapena nkhawa, kuchira, ndi kuphunzira kuvomereza malingaliro ameneŵa monga mbali ya moyo.
Kuthandiza ana kuthana ndi zovuta zamakhalidwe awo
Ngakhale kuti ana ambiri—pafupifupi onse—adzavutika maganizo, ena amapitiriza kukhala ndi mavuto aakulu a khalidwe. Izi zitha kukhala ndi zotsatira zopitilira pazochitika zomwe akufuna kuchita, zochita zawo, ndi zizolowezi zomwe amapanga.
Kwa ena, kuthekera kwawo kochita bwino, kaya kusukulu kapena kunyumba, kungasokonezedwe. Pamene ogwira ntchito zachitukuko ayamba kuthana ndi thanzi la mwana, amatha kuyang'ana zochitika zomwe amacheza nazo, zomwe amamwa, kaya akudya bwino komanso zomwe, ngati zilipo, zizolowezi zomwe ali nazo. Matenda ena amakhalidwe angapitirire kwa miyezi kapena zaka, kutanthauza kuti kunyumba kwa mwanayo, komwe amakhala, ndi maphunziro ake zonse zimakhudzidwa.
Pazovuta zina, monga kusokonezeka kwa khalidwe, kusokonezeka maganizo / kusokonezeka maganizo, ndi matenda otsutsa otsutsa, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko angakhale akatswiri oyambirira kuchiza mwanayo. Zili choncho chifukwa khalidwe lawo linkaonedwa ngati lachibadwa kunyumba komanso mbali ya umunthu wawo.
Akamuyeza mwanayo, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko angapereke chithandizo m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Nthaŵi zambiri amayamba kulankhula ndi makolo a mwanayo kuti afotokoze zizindikiro zofala za vuto la khalidwelo, chifukwa zimenezi zimawathandiza kumvetsa chifukwa chimene wachichepereyo akuvutikira kukwaniritsa zochitika zazikulu, kucheza bwino, kapena kupita patsogolo m’maphunziro.
Dokotala angathenso kutumiza mwanayo kuti akamuyezetse kuti atsimikizire kuti palibe vuto linalake lomwe limayambitsa thanzi lake komanso kuti athe kupeza njira yachipatala, mwachitsanzo, mankhwala. Pomaliza, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko angagwire ntchito limodzi ndi mwanayo kuti amuphunzitse maluso osiyanasiyana omwe amawathandiza kuthana ndi vuto lawo komanso kupereka malangizo kwa makolo pa njira zomwe angagwiritse ntchito pakhomo kuti agwirizane bwino ndi mwana wawo.
Kuthandiza ana amene akukumana ndi mavuto
Ana ndi osiyana, ndipo ngakhale kuti ambiri amasangalala kukhala ndi anzawo komanso kusangalala ndi gulu la mabwenzi ambiri, ena amaona kuti mbali imeneyi ya kukula ndi vuto. Ogwira ntchito zamagulu nthawi zambiri amauzidwa za ana omwe amavutika kuti azicheza nawo komanso sakonda kukhala pafupi ndi ena, pomwe amafunikira thandizo lowonjezera pophunzira luso lachitukuko.
Ngati akuwona kuti mwana angapindule ndi kulowerera kwawo, pali njira zingapo zomwe angasankhe kuti athandizire.
Ndi ana aang’ono, sewero, kugwiritsa ntchito nthano, ndi zidole zingathandize ana kuphunzira zinthu monga kukhala okoma mtima ndi kuchitira ena ulemu.
Izi zingawalimbikitse kugwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe omwewo ndi anzawo, ndipo chifukwa cha zimenezi, angapeze mabwenzi mosavuta. Gawo lina la magawowa liphatikizanso kuphunzitsa ana za kumvetsera m’kalasi komanso kusinthana ndi ena pankhani yolankhula.
Izi zitha kuchitika popereka chinthu kwa mwanayo ikafika nthawi yake yoti alankhule ndikumupempha kuti abweze ndikukhala chete ikafika nthawi ya wothandiza anthu.
Mbali ina yocheza imene ana ena samaimvetsa nthawi yomweyo ndiyo kulankhulana ndi thupi. Maluso monga kuyang’anizana m’maso, kumwetulira wina ndi mnzake monga moni, ndi kugwedeza mutu m’chigwirizano ndi zonse zingakhoze kuchitidwa. Komanso, ana angaphunzitsidwe kuti kuyang'ana kumbali, kunyoza, kapena kugwedeza kungakhale kovuta kuti anthu ena aone.
Ana ena adzafunikiranso kuphunzitsidwa za malo awoawo ndi malire, kotero kuti athe kulemekeza malingaliro a anzawo ndi kupirira bwino m’mikhalidwe yothinana.
Kodi ogwira ntchito zachitukuko amatha bwanji kuchitapo kanthu pamavuto kwa ana?
Momwemo, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko sangakumane ndi mwana kwa nthawi yoyamba pamene anali pamavuto. Komabe, akatero, kulowererapo komwe angachite kumasiyana malinga ndi zomwe zikuseweredwa.
Nthawi zambiri, ngakhale kuti mwanayo ndi wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi anthu ogwira nawo ntchito, amatha kukhala ndi banja lomwe limakhala losautsika ndipo dokotala amakumbukiranso.
Adzayamba ndi kuyang'ana magwero a chochitikacho ndi mbiri iliyonse yomwe ali nayo ndi mwanayo. Ngati pali zinthu zambiri, amayang'ana pa zinayi kapena zisanu zomwe zimawoneka zovuta kwambiri, ndikukhazikitsa cholinga chilichonse.
Ogwira ntchito zamagulu sadzalonjeza kuti apeza yankho labwino kwambiri. Potsirizira pake, pamene akuyesera kukhazikitsa unansi wolimbikitsa ndi mwanayo, malire ofatsa adzaikidwa. Izi ndizofunikira makamaka ngati mwanayo akuwonetsa makhalidwe ovuta.
Komabe, panthawi imodzimodziyo, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko adzayesa kuti mwanayo alankhule momasuka ndikufotokozera zomwe zinayambitsa vuto lomwe liripo. Akapeza zambiri momwe angathere, awonanso mphamvu za banjalo ndi zosowa zawo. Adzapereka mayankho akanthawi kochepa kuti athetse vuto lomwe lilipo ndikuwonetsa zolinga zanthawi yayitali.
Kuyanjanitsa mabanja ndi ana ndi zothandizira anthu ammudzi
Ogwira ntchito zaumphawi ali ndi mwayi wopeza zinthu zambiri zamagulu zomwe angatumize wachinyamata ndi mabanja awo. Nthawi zovuta kwambiri, angapereke nthawi yogonekedwa m'chipatala kapena uphungu wa akatswiri.
Komabe, zinthu zikakhala kuti sizikuipiraipira, akhoza kusonkhanitsa gulu lothandizira mwana kuti lithandize mwanayo pakapita nthawi, kutumiza mwanayo kwa katswiri wina kuti atsimikizire kuti ali ndi matenda, kapena amalangiza pulogalamu ya m'deralo yomwe imayamba pambuyo pa sukulu.
Ngati nkhaniyo ifika ponseponse, angalankhule ndi kholo ndi zinthu zimene zingawathandize akadzakula. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kholo likuphunzira, sing’anga akhoza kulemba zizindikiro thandizo lachuma Thandizo la ndalama zolipirira ndalama zawo, kapena mabanki azakudya omwe angathandize banja kudya bwino komanso kutsatira zakudya zopatsa thanzi.
Kodi thanzi lingathandize mwana kuchita bwino pamaphunziro?
M’mbuyomu, masukulu ambiri ankaganizira kwambiri za maphunziro, koma m’malo ophunzirira amakono, pali kusintha koika patsogolo thanzi.
Mawuwa amatanthawuza kuti mwana amadzimva wokondwa tsiku ndi tsiku, koma nthawi zambiri amakhudza thanzi lawo lamaganizo ndi thupi. Kaŵirikaŵiri, kupsinjika maganizo ndi nkhaŵa zingawononge kukula kwa mwanayo ndi kukhoza kupirira kusukulu.
Ngakhale kuti ana osangalala amaona kuti n’zosavuta kuika maganizo awo pa ntchito yawo, amakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo amalimbikitsidwa kuti apambane. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amakhala ndi mwayi wolimbikira maphunziro awo ndipo amasangalala ndi maphunziro awo.
Kuphatikiza apo, popeza olemba anzawo ntchito amakonda kuyang'ana ofuna kusintha omwe amawonetsa kulimba mtima ndi luso lotha kuthetsa mavuto, zingakhale zothandiza kuti ana ayambe kukulitsa luso lofewa akali pasukulu.
Chifukwa chake, kuti athe kuthandiza ophunzira awo ntchito zomwe ali nazo panopa komanso kupambana kwawo m'tsogolomu, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko nthawi zambiri amayambitsa maphunziro a zaumoyo.
Izi zingatheke mwa kulinganiza zinthu zing’onozing’ono zimene zimachititsa ana kukhala achangu pa nthawi yopuma, monga kugula zida zimene angagwiritse ntchito panthawi yopuma kapenanso kukhazikitsa makalabu amasewera akaweruka kusukulu.
Katswiri adzayang'ananso za umoyo wamaganizo wa wophunzira wawo polimbikitsa zochitika zakunja monga magawo osinkhasinkha, uphungu, ndi maphunziro omanga timu. Izi zingaphunzitse ana chifundo kwa wina ndi mzake, komanso momwe angagwirizanitse ndi kusonyeza chifundo kwa anthu osiyana nawo.
Ndondomekozi sizongothandiza ana, chifukwa powathandiza kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, ogwira nawo ntchito amathandizira chitukuko chawo kunyumba ndi kusukulu.
Ana akakhala osangalala, pamakhala zovuta zochepa zamakhalidwe zomwe aphunzitsi ndi makolo aziwongolera. Zotsatira zake, mkhalidwe wapanyumba ndi kusukulu umakhala wolemekezeka kwa aliyense. Chilengedwechi chimalola ophunzira kuti azilumikizana m'njira zabwino komanso kuchepetsa kuthekera kwa mikangano yomwe ingabuke. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, ana amakhala otetezeka komanso osangalala kusukulu ndipo amadziona kuti ndi anthu a m’dera lawo.
Ubwino umapindulitsa aphunzitsi ndi sukulu
Ubwino umalimbikitsa kupirira. Nthawi yamavuto, monga mayeso, ikafika, aliyense amakhala ndi mwayi wothana ndi nkhawa zomwe zimapangidwa. Onse aphunzitsi ndi ophunzira amatha kuyandikira mayeso molimba mtima komanso mwanzeru - zonse zomwe ndi luso lofunikira pankhani yophunzira.
Ngakhale ophunzira atakhudzidwa ndi kupsinjika maganizo, zomwe sizingatheke, ogwira ntchito zamagulu omwe akhazikitsa mapulogalamu a thanzi angaphatikizepo kuphunzitsa njira zothetsera vutoli. Kuchokera pamalingaliro mpaka pakulemba, pali njira zambiri zomwe zimalola achinyamata kuthana ndi malingaliro omwe akukumana nawo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amakhala okhoza kudziŵa kumasuka, ndipo amaika maganizo awo pa ntchito imene akugwira.
Chotsatira cha sukulu chikhoza kukhala kuchepetsa ndalama zonse, popeza pali kupanikizika kochepa pakati pa gulu lophunzitsa komanso ogwira ntchito oyenerera amakhalabe m'malo awo, m'malo mofunafuna ntchito yatsopano kwinakwake. Choncho, ogwira ntchito zachitukuko angathandize sukulu yomwe amagwira ntchito kuti apereke ndalama zambiri kumadera omwe amapindula ndi ophunzira, monga kupanga maphunziro ndi kuyendetsa ntchito zambiri pambuyo pa sukulu.
