Zviitwa zvekuteerera zvine hunyanzvi mukana wakanaka wekuvandudza hunyanzvi hwako hwekuteerera uye kuva nekunakidzwa. Kuva muteereri anoshingaira kunogona kuuya kwoga uye kunogonawo kukudziridzwa.
Unyanzvi hwekuteerera hunokosha zvikuru mukukurukurirana kunobudirira. Iwe haugone kuva mutauri akanaka kana usiri muteereri akanaka.
Unyanzvi hwekuteerera hunoshanda hwakakosha zvakanyanya mune yega yega yehupenyu hwako, zvese zvemunhu nehunyanzvi hupenyu. Tsvagiridzo inoratidzawo kuti kunyatsoteerera kune zvakawanda zvehutano zvinobatsira zvakadai sekudzidza zviri nani, kuvandudza ndangariro, kurapa matambudziko ekufunganya, nezvimwe.
Muchinyorwa chino, iwe uchadzidza tsananguro yekuteerera nekushingaira, mienzaniso yehunyanzvi hwekuteerera, uye maekisesaizi ekuteerera anoshingaira.
Zviri Mukati
Chii Chinoshingaira Kuteerera Unyanzvi?
Kunyatsoteerera kunoreva nzira yekunyatsoteerera uye kunzwisisa zviri kutaurwa nemumwe munhu. Iyi nzira yekuteerera inoita kuti mukurukuri anzwe achinzwikwa uye achikosheswa.
Unyanzvi hwekuteerera hune hunyanzvi kugona kuita nhamburiko yekunyatsoteerera uye kunzwisisa mameseji emutauri.
Pazasi pane mimwe mienzaniso yehunyanzvi hwekuteerera:
- Tsanangura
- Bvunza mibvunzo yakavhurika
- Teerera uye uzviratidze
- Rega kutonga
- Dzivisa kuvhiringidzwa
- Ngwarira kune zvisiri zvemashoko
- Bvunza mibvunzo inojekesa
- Ipa chisimbiso chemuromo chipfupi etc.
20 Kudzidzira Kunyatsoteerera
Aya maekisesaizi makumi maviri ekuteerera akaiswa muzvikamu zvina pazasi:
- Ita kuti mukurukuri anzwe anzwika
- Teerera kuti uchengetedze ruzivo
- Bvunza mibvunzo
- Chenjerera kune zvisiri zvekutaura.
Ita kuti mukurukuri anzwe anzwika
Kunyatsoteerera kunonyanya kuita kuti mutauri anzwe anzwikwa. Somuteereri anoshingaira, unofanira kunyatsoteerera uye kuzviratidza.
Aya maekisesaizi ekuteerera achakubatsira kuratidza vanhu kuti uri kuterera mameseji avo.
1. Nyora mienzaniso yeunyanzvi hwekuteerera hwakanaka nehwakaipa hwaunoziva
Unyanzvi hwekuteerera hwakanaka hunosanganisira kugutsurira, kunyemwerera, kuramba wakatarisa, kuratidza tsitsi, nezvimwe.
Hunyanzvi hwekuteerera hwakaipa hunogona kusanganisira: kutarisa foni yako kana wachi, kudzedzereka, kukanganisa, kudzokorora mhinduro, nezvimwe.
Ichi chiitwa chinokuita kuti uzive hunyanzvi hwekudzivisa uye hunyanzvi hwekuvandudza.
2. Kumbira mumwe munhu kuti ataure zvakaitika kwaari zvekare
Udza shamwari dzako kana nhengo dzemhuri, zviri nani vaviri, kuti vagovane nyaya yavo yapfuura. Somuenzaniso, apo munhu akaiswa muchipatara pazuva rokutanga kuyunivhesiti, nezvimwewo.
Paunenge uchiteerera munhu wekutanga, edza kubvunza mibvunzo. Zvadaro, taura zvakaitika zvakafanana paunenge uchiteerera mumwe munhu.
Bvunza mukurukuri mumwe nomumwe paanonzwa achinzwiwa uye achiremekedzwa.
3. 3-maminiti ezororo
Muchiito ichi, mukurukuri anotaura nezvezororo ravo rekurota kwemaminetsi matatu. Mukurukuri anofanira kutsanangura zvaanoda kubva kuzororo asi asingataure kwekuenda.
Mukurukuri paanenge achitaura, muteereri anonyatsoteerera uye anoshandisa zviratidzo zvisiri zvemashoko chete kuratidza kufarira zviri kutaurwa nomukurukuri.
Mushure memaminitsi matatu, mutereri anofanira kupfupisa mapoinzi akakosha ezororo remutauri wobva wafembera zita renzvimbo.
Ipapo mukurukuri anodzokorora kuti muteereri anga ari pedyo zvakadii nezvaakataura nezvaaida. Uyewo, mukurukuri anoongorora zviito zvemuteereri zvisina kutaura.
4. Kurukura musoro wenyaya neshamwari yako
Wona neshamwari yako uye kurukura nyaya yakajairika. Somuenzaniso, inflation.
Mumwe nomumwe wenyu anofanira kuita majana okuva mukurukuri kana kuti muteereri. Kana mukurukuri apedza kutaura, muteereri anofanira kudzokorora pfungwa huru dzomukurukuri orumbidza.
5. Vazhinji-kune-mumwe vs Mumwe-kune-mumwe
Iva nehurukuro yeboka neshamwari dzako (inenge 3). Bvumira munhu mumwe chete kutaura panguva.
Zvadaro, iva nehurukuro yega-kune-mumwe nemumwe wavo. Bvunza, ndepapi pavakanyanya kunzwa? Nhamba yevatori vechikamu ine basa here?
6. Natsa zvakataurwa nomukurukuri
Bvunza shamwari yako kuti ikuudze nezvake - bhuku raanofarira, zviitiko zvakaipisisa zvehupenyu, nezvimwe.
Paanenge achitaura, chengetedza mutauro wemuviri wakanaka sekugutsurira uye kupa zvisimbiso zvemuromo senge "Ndinobvuma," "Ndinonzwisisa," nezvimwe.
Kana shamwari yako (mukurukuri) apedza kutaura, dzokorora zvaataura. Semuenzaniso, "Ndakunzwa uchiti muimbi waunofarira ndi..."
Teerera kuti uchengetedze ruzivo
Kunyatsoteerera hakusi kwekuita kuti mutauri anzwe anzwikwa kana kupa zvisungo zvisiri zvekutaura. Zvinodawo kuti vateereri vaedze kuyeuka zvavanonzwa.
Zviitwa zvekuteerera zvinotevera zvinokubatsira mukuchengetedza ruzivo.
7. Kumbira mumwe munhu kuti ataure nyaya
Kumbira mumwe munhu kuti akuverengere nyaya uye uudze munhu wacho kuti akubvunze mibvunzo mushure mekurondedzera nyaya.
Mibvunzo yakaita sekuti “mutambi wacho ainzi ani? "Unogona kupfupisa nyaya yacho here?" etc.
8. Ndiani Akazvitaura?
Ichi chiito chekuteerera chinoshanda chinosanganisira zvikamu zviviri:
Chikamu 1: Iwe unofanirwa kuona bhaisikopo kana chikamu chenhevedzano neshamwari. Teerera nhaurirano yega yega zvakajeka.
Chikamu 2: Kumbira shamwari yako kuti ikubvunze mibvunzo inobva pane zvakataurwa nemumwe munhu.
Semuenzaniso, ndeupi munhu akati hupenyu hahunetse?
9. Verenga bhuku rengano
Kana usina munhu anogona kukutaurira nyaya, verenga mabhuku mapfupi enyaya anowanzova nemibvunzo panoperera chitsauko choga choga.
Waverenga chitsauko chimwe nechimwe, pindura mibvunzo uye dzokera kuti uverenge chitsauko kuti uone kana mhinduro dzako dzaive dzakarurama.
10. Cherechedza
Panguva yemharidzo muchikoro kana kuti kubasa, teerera mukurukuri, wozonyora mashoko ake mumashoko ako okuti tsinhiro.
Unogona kugara uchidzokera kuchinotsi ichi Kuti wakanganwa chero meseji yemutauri.
11. Tamba mutambo we "spot the change".
Ichi chiitiko chevanhu vaviri. Kumbira shamwari yako kuti ikuverengere kanyaya kapfupi. Ipapo anofanira kuriverenga zvakare, pashure pokuita chinjo dzakati.
Pese paunonzwa shanduko, ombera kana kusimudza ruoko kuratidza kuti pane mukana.
12. Bata mibvunzo yako
Udza shamwari dzako kuti dzigadzire WhatsApp group. Vape imwe nyaya yekukurukura muboka.
Shamwari dzako (dzose dziri muboka) dzinofanirwa kunge dziri admins. Iwewo unofanira kuiswa kugroup rino asi usave admin.
Shamwari dzako dzisati dzatanga kukurukura, marongero eboka anofanirwa kuchinjwa kuti ave maadmins chete anogona kutumira mameseji.
Mushure mekunge vapedza kukurukura musoro, vanogona kuvhura boka, kuti iwe ugokwanisa kubvunza mibvunzo yako.
Nenzira iyi hauna sarudzo kunze kwekuchengeta mibvunzo yako kusvika vapedza kutaura. Hapazovi nenzvimbo yekuvhiringidza.
13. Verenga yakareba blog post
Edza kuverenga chinyorwa chakareba (angangoita 1,500 mazwi). Nyatsoteerera paunenge uchiverenga chinyorwa ichi.
Vazhinji vanyori vezvinyorwa vanowanzo wedzera mibvunzo pakupera kwechinyorwa. Tsvaga iyi mibvunzo uye upe mhinduro muchikamu chekutaura.
Bvunza mibvunzo
Kubvunza mibvunzo ine chekuita kwakakosha zvikuru mukuteerera nekushingaira. Unogona kubvunza mibvunzo kutsvaga kujekeswa kana kuwana rumwe ruzivo.
Aya maekisesaizi achakubatsira nekubvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera panguva yakakodzera.
14. Kujekesa vs Hapana kujekeswa
Udza shamwari yako kuti ikutumire chimwe chinhu. Semuenzaniso, ndibatsireiwo nebhegi rangu. Enda uuye nebhegi chero usina kubvunza mibvunzo.
Udza shamwari imwe chete iyoyo kuti ikutumire pane chimwe chinhu zvakare. Semuenzaniso, ndibatsireiwo neshangu yangu. Asi panguva ino kumbira kujekeswa.
Unogona kubvunza mibvunzo iyi:
- Unoreva shangu yako yakapfava kana sneakers dzako?
- Ndiyo sneakers tsvuku here?
Mushure mekuita mabasa aya, bvunza shamwari yako pawakauya nekugutsikana kwayo. Waiva pawaibvunza mibvunzo here kana kuti pausina kubvunza?
Ichi chiitwa chekuteerera chinoshanda chinodzidzisa kukosha kwekutsvaga kutsanangurirwa kuti uvandudze kunzwisisa kwechinyorwa.
15. Tamba mutambo wekudhirowa
Ichi chimwe chiitwa chevanhu vaviri. Unogona kuita chiitwa ichi neshamwari dzako, vanin'ina vako, kana kunyange vabereki vako.
Udza shamwari yako (kana chero munhu waunosarudza semumwe wako) kuti atore pepa rine zvimiro zvakasiyana sematatu, madenderedzwa, masikweya, nezvimwe.
Unofanira kuwana penzura nebepa asi risina chinhu. Zvadaro, iwe neshamwari yako munofanira kugara kumashure.
Kumbira shamwari yako kuti itsanangure maumbirwo ari pabepa naye. Wodhirowa maumbirwo acho zvichienderana nemhinduro kubva kushamwari yako.
Chekupedzisira, mapepa ese ari maviri anofanirwa kufananidzwa kuti uone kana iwe wakanyatso dzokorora dhizaini.
Ichi chiitiko chinokuratidza kukosha kwekubvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera kuti uwane ruzivo rwakakosha.
16. Zvikonzero Zvitatu
Ichi chiitiko chinoda vanhu vaviri - mutauri nemuteereri.
Mukurukuri aizotaura nezvechero musoro wenyaya wavanofarira kweinenge miniti. Zvadaro, muteereri anofanira kunyatsoteerera zviri kutaurwa nomukurukuri uye okwanisa kubvunza mibvunzo yokuti “nei”.
Iyi mibvunzo haisati yapindurwa nemukurukuri mukati meminiti yavo imwe chete yekutaura. Pfungwa yacho ndeyokutsvaga mibvunzo isina kupindurwa nemukurukuri.
Ichi chiitiko chichakubatsira iwe kudzidza kubvunza mibvunzo ine chekuita, inozopa rumwe ruzivo.
Chenjerera kune zvisiri zvekutaura
Nonverbal cues inokwanisa kutaura zviuru zvemashoko. Panguva yekurukurirano, unofanira kugara uchiziva zviratidzo zvako zvisingatauri uye zvemukurukuri.
Aya maekisesaizi ekuteerera anokudzidzisa kukosha kwekuteerera kune zvisiri zvekutaura.
17. Taura nemuteereri asina pfungwa
Ichi chiito chevanhu vaviri, apo mukurukuri anotaura nezvechimwe chinhu chaanofarira. Mukurukuri anofanirwa kushandisa zvakawanda zvisiri zvekutaura sechimiro chechiso, majeti emaoko, nezvimwe.
Muteereri, asingazivikanwe nemukurukuri, anofanira kurayirirwa kuratidza kusafarira achishandisa zvisizvo zvakadai sokutarira parunhare, kuzamura, kutarisa-tarisa mukamuri, kuzembera pachigaro, nezvimwewo.
Pachava neshanduko yemutauro wemutauri. Mukurukuri achagumbuka chaizvo uye achagumbuka.
Ichi chiitwa chinoratidza kukosha kwemazwi akanaka kubva kumuteereri kuenda kumutauri.
18. Mime it out
Ichi chiitiko chevanhu vaviri. Ipa mumwe munhu, zvichida shamwari yako kana waunoshanda naye, nyaya yekuverenga.
Shamwari yako inofanira kuverenga nyaya yacho kwemaminitsi mashanu uye ouya nemashoko aanoona kuti akakodzera kutsanangura nyaya yacho.
Pakupera kwemaminetsi mashanu, udza shamwari yako kuti itsanangure nyaya yacho nezvisina kutaura. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa izvi zvisiri zvekutaura uye kuudza shamwari yako nezvenyaya yacho.
Ichi chiitwa chichakubatsira iwe kukudziridza kunzwisisa kwezvisiri zvekutaura. Iwe unozodzidza zvakare maverengero asiri emazwi.
19. Teerera usingataure shoko
Kumbira mumwe munhu kuti akuudze imwe nyaya pamusoro pehupenyu hwake - sekutsanangura chiitiko chavo chekupedzisira chekuzvarwa.
Teerera pasina chauri kutaura kunze kwekungopa zvirevo zvisina kutaura. Bvunza munhu wacho kana zviratidzo zvako zvisingatauri zvichikurudzira kana kwete.
20. Fungidzira Mufananidzo
Pachiitwa ichi, iwe unofanirwa kugadzira timu (vanenge vanhu 4). Chikwata chinosarudza munhu mumwe chete kuti atarise mufananidzo uye anotsanangura mufananidzo achishandisa majeti emaoko uye zvimwe zvisiri zvekutaura.
Uyu munhu achange akatarisana nemufananidzo uye dzimwe nhengo dzechikwata hadzizotarisana nemufananidzo. Nhengo dzechikwata dzakasara dzinoedza kufungidzira zita remufananidzo unotsanangurwa zvichibva pane zvisiri zvekutaura.
Tamba mutambo uyu kakawanda, uye kuchinjana mabasa nedzimwe nhengo dzechikwata. Ichi chiitwa chinokudzidzisa kuverenga nekududzira zvisiri zvemashoko.
Tinokurudzirawo:
- Unyanzvi Hwokuteerera Kukurukurirana: Gwaro Rakazara
- Yakanyorwa Hunyanzvi Hwekukurukurirana: Gwaro Rakazara
- Nonverbal Communication Skills: Gwaro Rakazara
- Zvakanakira uye Zvakaipa Pakuverenga Mabhuku.
mhedziso
Izvo zvakanyorwa pamusoro hunyanzvi hwekuteerera hunokwanisa kuvandudza kugona kwako kwekuteerera uchishingaira.
Kana uchida kuvandudza hunyanzvi hwako hwekuteerera zvakanyanya, ongorora chinyorwa chedu pakuteerera kwakasimba. Iwe unozodzidza hunyanzvi hwekuteerera hunoshanda hunozoshandura hupenyu hwako.
Tinoda kuziva kana iwe wakashandisa chero chezviitwa zvekuteerera zvekuteerera. Waona kuvandudzika kupi nokupi here? Tizivise muChikamu cheMashoko.