Iivesi zeBhayibhile ezingama-40 malunga nobudlelwane kunye neBomi

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Ubudlelwane kufuneka bukusondeze kuKristu kunokuba usondele esonweni. Musa ukwenza izivumelwano ukuze ugcine umntu; UThixo ubaluleke ngakumbi. Eli nqaku liza kukufundisa iindinyana zeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane kunye nesoka, eliya kuba ngumthombo wolwazi ngokungathandabuzekiyo kubantu abangabodwa ngaphandle abalungele ukuxubana.

Ekuqaleni, uThixo waphawula ukuba kwakungebobulumko ukuba indoda ibe yodwa, ibe ngaloo ndlela wakufumanisa kufanelekile ukuba indoda nomfazi bazane ngendlela esondeleleneyo, ekhethekileyo, nangendlela engokwesini ( Gen. 2:18; Mateyu 19 . :4-6). Yinto emele inanditshwe, yaye umnqweno wokwazi umntu ngolu hlobo awufanele ujongelwe phantsi okanye ujongelwe phantsi.

Abo bakulungeleyo ukufunda imigaqo kaThixo engokugcina ulwalamano kunye, kwelinye icala, baya kucingwa nguThixo baze bakhokele ukwenza okulungileyo ngesibhalo.

Kananjalo ukuqonda okunzulu ngeemfundiso zobudlelwane bobuthixo, ungabhalisa ku ngexabiso eliphantsi elivunyiweyo kwikholeji yeBhayibhile ekwi-intanethi ukuze ukwazi ukwandisa umbono wakho.

Uya kuba nakho ukuqonda ukuba yintoni enqwenelwa nguThixo kubudlelwane bakho ngoku kunye nesithandwa sakho ukuba ufunda ngononophelo ezi ndinyana zebhayibhile ezingama-40 malunga nobudlelwane nesoka.

Ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutyekwe, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba naluphi na ulwalamano luya kusilela ngaphandle kokuba lukhanyiselwe kukukhanya kukaThixo. Lonke ulwalamano olusekelwe kuThixo luya kuphumelela luze luzise uzuko kwigama lakhe. Kucetyiswa ukuba ukhuphele Izifundo ezishicilelweyo zesifundo seBhayibhile esinemibuzo kunye neempendulo ukukunceda uhlale endleleni kubudlelwane bakho.

Iimbono zeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane bothando

Ngaphambi kokuba singene kwiindinyana ezingama-40 zeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane kunye nesoka, luluvo oluhle ukuqwalasela iimbono zeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane bothando nabantu besini esahlukileyo.

Imbono kaThixo ngothando yahluke kakhulu kuleyo yehlabathi lonke. Ngaphambi kokuba sizibophelele ngokusuk’ entliziyweni, ufuna siqale sifumanise eyona nto ayiyo umntu, ukuba ungubani na xa kungekho mntu usijongileyo.

Ngaba iqabane lakho liya kulomeleza ulwalamano lwakho noKristu, okanye lijongela phantsi ukuziphatha nemilinganiselo yakho yokuziphatha? Ngaba loo mntu umamkele uKristu njengoMsindisi wakhe ( Yohane 3:3-8; 2 Korinte 6:14-15 )? Ngaba umntu uzabalazela ukufana ngakumbi noYesu ( Filipi 2:5 ), okanye ngaba uphila ubomi bokuzingca?

Ngaba umntu ubonakalisa iziqhamo zomoya, ezinjengothando, uvuyo, uxolo, ukuzeka kade umsindo, ububele, ukulunga, intembeko, ubulali, nokuzeyisa ( Galati 5:222-23 )?

Xa uzibophelele komnye umntu othandana naye, khumbula ukuba uThixo ngoyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho ( Mateyu 10:37 ). Nokuba uthetha kakuhle kwaye uyamthanda umntu ngaphandle kwemiqathango, akufanele ubeke nantoni na okanye nabani na ngaphezu koThixo.

Iivesi zeBhayibhile ezingama-40 malunga nobudlelwane kunye neBomi

Nazi iindinyana ezingama-40 zebhayibhile ezilungileyo zobudlelwane kunye nesoka eziya kunceda ukondla umendo wakho omnye komnye.

#1.  1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-5

Uthando luzeka kade umsindo yaye lunobubele. Uthando alunamona okanye alunakratshi okanye alunakratshi okanye lukrwada. Ayifuni eyakhe indlela. Ayicaphuki, kwaye ayigcini ingxelo yokuba iphosakele.

#2.  Matthew 6: 33 

Funani ke tanci ubukumkani bukaThixo nobulungisa bakhe, zaye zonke ezo zinto ziya kongezelelwa kuni.

#3. 1 Peter 4: 8

Ngaphezu kwako konke, thandanani ngenyameko, kuba uthando lugubungela inkitha yezono.

#4. Kwabase-Efese 4: 2

Thobeka ngokugqibeleleyo, ubulali; yibani nomonde, ninyamezelana ngothando.

#5. UMateyu 5: 27-28

Nivile ukuba kwathiwa, Uze ungakrexezi. 28 Ke mna ndithi kuni, wonke umntu okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.

#6. AmaGalati 5: 16

Ke mna ndithi, Hambani ngokoMoya, naningasayi kuthi ke niyizalise inkanuko yenyama.

#7. KwabaseKorinte 1 10: 31

Ke ngoko, nokuba niyatya, nokuba niyasela, nokuba nenza yiphi na into, zenzeleni uzuko lukaThixo izinto zonke.

#8. ISityhilelo 21: 9

Saza seza kum esinye sezithunywa zezulu ezisixhenxe, ezineengqayi ezisixhenxe, ezizele zizibetho ezisixhenxe zokugqibela, sisithi, Yiza, ndikubonise umtshakazi, umfazi wayo iMvana.

#9. IGenesis 31: 50

Ukuba uthe wazicinezela iintombi zam, nokuba uthe wazeka umfazi phezu kweentombi zam, kungekho bani unathi, khumbula ukuba uThixo ulingqina phakathi kwam nawe.

#10. 1 Timothy 3: 6-11

Ufanele angabi sandul’ ukuguquka, okanye akhukhumele likratshi aze awele ekugwetyweni nguMtyholi. Ngaphezu koko, umelwe kukuthi angqinelwe ngabangaphandle, ukuze angeyeli ehlazweni, emgibeni kaMtyholi. Kwangokunjalo abalungiseleli bamelwe kukuba nokundileka, bangabi ntlolela yombini, bangazinikeli kwiwayini eninzi, bangangxameli nzuzo imbi. mabayibambe imfihlelo yokholo, benesazela esilungileyo; Kwanabo ke mabacikidwe ukuqala; mabakhonze ngokobulungiseleli, ukuba ngaba bangenakusoleka...

#11. Efese 5:31 

Ngako oko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye.

#12. ULuka 12: 29-31 

Nize ningafuni ukuba ningadla ntoni na, nisele ntoni na, ningabi naxhala. ngokuba zonke ezo zinto zingxanyelwe ziintlanga zehlabathi; uYihlo ke uyazi ukuba niziswele ezo zinto. Funani ubukumkani bukaThixo nina, zaye ezo zinto ziya kongezelelwa kuni.

#13. INtshumayeli 4: 9-12

Kulungile ukuba babe ngababini kunokuba abe mnye, kuba banomvuzo olungileyo ngemigudu yabo. Ngokuba xa bathe bawa, omnye unokumphakamisa uwabo; Yeha ke, lowo uthe wawa yedwa, engenaye omnye wokumphakamisa! Kananjalo ababini, bathe balala, baya kuva ukusitha; angathini na ukuva ukusitha olele yedwa? Ukuba umntu uthe wamgagamela oyedwa, bona ababini baya kumisa phambi kwakhe; umsonto ontluntathu awuhle uqhawulwe.

#14. 1 kwabaseTesalonika 5: 11

Kungoko ndithi, Thuthuzelanani, nakhane, kwanjengokuba nisenjenjalo.

#15. Efese 4: 29

Makungaphumi nanye intetho ebolileyo emlonyeni wenu;

#16. John 13: 34

Ndiniwisela umthetho omtsha, wokuba nithandane. Njengoko ndinithandileyo mna, nani thandanani ngokunjalo.

#17. ImiZekeliso 13: 20

hamba nezilumko, ulumke ke;

#18. KwabaseKorinte 1 6: 18

Kubalekeni uhenyuzo; Zonke izono athe umntu wazenza, zingaphandle komzimba; ke yena owenza umbulo, wona owakhe umzimba.

#19. 1 kwabaseTesalonika 5: 11

Kungoko ndithi, Thuthuzelanani, nakhane, kwanjengokuba nisenza.

#20. John 14: 15

Ukuba niyandithanda noyigcina imiyalelo yam.

Ukuphakamisa umphefumlo iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga noBudlelwane kunye noMfana

#21. INtshumayeli 7: 8-9

Kulungile ukugqitywa kwendawo, ngaphezu kokuqalwa kwayo; ulungile umoya ozeka kade umsindo, kunomoya ozidlayo. Musa ukukungxamela ukuqumba ngomoya wakho, ngokuba ingqumbo ilala esifubeni sezidenge.

#22. KwabaseRoma 12: 19

Ungaxabani namntu. Hlalani ngoxolo nabantu bonke.

#23. KwabaseKorinte 1 15: 33

Musani ukulahlekiswa. Unxibelelwano olubi lonakalisa izimilo ezilungileyo.

#24. KwabaseKorinte 2 6: 14

Musani ukubophelwa entolongweni kunye nabangakholwayo; kuba bubudlelane buni na ukungalungi? kwaye kukuphi ukuhlangana okukhanya kunye nobumnyama?

#25. I-1 Thesalonika 4: 3-5

Kuba oku kukuthanda kukaThixo, ukungcwaliswa kwenu, ukuba nikhumke kulo uhenyuzo.

#26. Matthew 5: 28

Ke mna ndithi kuni, Wonke umntu okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.

#27. 1 John 3: 18

Bantwanana bam, masingathandi ngazwi nangamlomo; kodwa ngezenzo nangenyaniso.

#28. Iindumiso 127: 1-5

Ukuba akayakhi uYehova indlu, Bafumana besaphuka yiyo abakhi bayo. Ukuba umzi akawugcini uYehova, Uhlala ephaphile umlindi. 2 Kulilize ukuvuka kusasa, uye kulala emva kwexesha, usidla isonka sokubulaleka; ngokuba uyinika intanda yakhe ubuthongo.

#29. Matthew 18: 19

Kananjalo inene ndithi kuni, Ukuba ababini kuni bathe bavumelana emhlabeni apha ngeendawo zonke abangazicelayo, bozenzelwa nguBawo osemazulwini.

#30. 1 John 1: 6

Ukuba sithi sinobudlelane naye, sibe sihamba ebumnyameni, soba siyaxoka, asiyenzi inyaniso;

#31. ImiZekeliso 4: 23

Ngaphezu kwako konke, yigcine intliziyo yakho, kuba yonke into oyenzayo iphuma kuyo.

#32. Efese 4: 2-3

ngako konke ukuthobeka kwentliziyo, ubulali, nokuzeka kade umsindo, ninyamezelana ngothando, nikhuthalele ukubugcina ubunye boMoya ngentambo yoxolo.

#33. ImiZekeliso 17: 17

Umhlobo uthanda ngamaxesha onke, Ke umzalwana uzalelwe imbandezelo.

#34. KwabaseKorinte 1 7: 9

Kodwa ukuba abanakuzeyisa, mabatshate. Kulungile ukuba kuzeke, kunokutshiseka.

#35. KumaHebhere 13: 4

 Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa; kuba abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba.

#36. ImiZekeliso 19: 14

Indlu nobutyebi lilifa kooyise; Ke yena umfazi onengqondo uvela kuYehova.

#37. 1 Korinte 7: 32-35

Oku ndikutsho ngenxa yengenelo yenu, kungekhona ukuze ndinithintele, kodwa ndikhuthaza ulungelelwano nokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo eNkosini.

#38. 1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 6-7

Uthando alunikezeli, aluze luphulukane nokholo, luhlala lunethemba, kwaye lunyamezela kuzo zonke iimeko.

#39. INgoma yazo iiNgoma 3:4

Ndithe ndisandula kancinane kubo, ndamfumana lowo uthandwa ngumphefumlo wam;

#40. KwabaseRoma 12: 10

Qhubekani niqhutywa luthando. bekanani omnye komnye ngaphezu kwenu.

Indlela Yokwakha Ubudlelwane Bobuthixo Nomfana Othandana Naye

Ezi zilandelayo ziindlela zokwakha ubudlelwane bobuThixo kunye nesoka:

  • Qinisekisa Ukuvisisana Kokomoya - 2 Korinte 6: 14-15
  • Khulisa Uthando Lokwenene Ngeqabane Lakho - Roma 12:9-10
  • Isivumelwano phakathi koBudlelwane obuzinziswe nguThixo -Amosi 3:3
  • Kwamkele ukungafezeki kweqabane lakho - kwabaseKorinte 13:4-7
  • Zibekele Usukelo Olufikelelekayo Kulwalamano Lwakho - Yeremiya 29:11
  • Zibandakanye kubudlelane bobuthixo—INdumiso 55:14
  • Yiya kwiNluleko yomtshato - Efese 4: 2
  • Yakhani Ubudlelwane bobuthixo kunye nezinye izibini ezitshatileyo - 1 Tesalonika 5:11
  • Qinisekisa ubudlelwane bakho nemithandazo - 1 Tesalonika 5: 17
  • Funda ukuxolela — Efese 4:32 .

Sincoma kwakhona 

FAQs malunga neevesi zeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa

Umntu unokulwakha njani ulwalamano lobuthixo nesoka?

Lihloniphe kwaye ulihloniphe iqabane lakho. Yenza uYesu abe sisiseko sobudlelwane bakho. Kubalekeni ukurheletya. Ungaze uthandane ngezizathu ezingalunganga. Yakha ukuthembana kunye nokunyaniseka neqabane lakho. Bonisanani uthando olungagungqiyo omnye komnye. Hlala uqhagamshelwe ngonxibelelwano.

Ngaba Kubi Ukuba Nomfana?

IBhayibhile iyakuvumela ukuba ube nenkwenkwe kuphela ukuba ulwalamano lwenu lulandela imigaqo yobuthixo. Imele imzukise uThixo.

Ngaba kukho ivesi yeBhayibhile malunga nobudlelwane nomfana?

Ewe, zininzi iivesi zeBhayibhile umntu anokufumana kuzo impembelelo kubudlelwane.

Uthini uThixo ngokuthanda iqabane lakho?

Efese 5:25: “Madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo.”

Ithini iBhayibhile ngobudlelwane nabafana?

Kwincwadi yoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 13:4-7 iBhayibhile ithetha ngendlela esikhetha ngayo ukuba kulwalamano lothando. Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, lunobubele; uthando alunamona, aluqhayisi; alikhukhumali 5 okanye alikrwada. Ayinyanzelisi ngendlela yayo; ayicaphuki okanye ayicaphuki; 6 Aluvuyeli ukwenza okubi, kodwa luvuyisana nenyaniso. Ukuba nesoka akunto imbi, kodwa uyakhwebuka kuburheletya.