Maluso olankhulana ndi mawu ndi ofunikira m'mbali zonse za moyo wathu. Maluso awa ndi ofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wanu waumwini komanso waukadaulo. M'malo mwake, pafupifupi ntchito iliyonse imafunikira luso lolankhulana mwamphamvu.
Ophunzira omwe ali ndi luso lolankhulana mwamphamvu amayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi olemba anzawo ntchito. Malinga ndi National Assistance of Colleges and Employers (NACE), 69.6% ya olemba anzawo ntchito amafuna ofuna kukhala ndi luso lolankhulana mwamphamvu.
M'masukulu, ophunzira angafunike luso lolankhulana ndi mawu kuti afotokoze, kugawana mfundo zawo pamaphunziro, komanso kukambirana ndi aphunzitsi ndi ophunzira anzawo. Aphunzitsi amafunikiranso luso lolankhulana ndi mawu kuti apereke chidziwitso kwa ophunzira ndi anzawo.
M'nkhaniyi, muphunzira tanthauzo la kulankhulana pakamwa, zitsanzo za kulankhulana pakamwa, ubwino ndi kuipa kwa kulankhulana pakamwa, ndi njira zowonjezera luso lanu loyankhulana.
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Kodi Maluso Olankhulana Olankhula Ndi Chiyani?
Kulankhulana pakamwa kumaphatikizapo kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olankhulidwa pogawana zambiri ndi anthu ena. Ngakhale, kulankhulana pakamwa kungaphatikizepo kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olembedwa.
Luso lolankhulana ndi mawu limaphatikizapo zambiri kuposa luso lolankhula. Zimaphatikizapo momwe mumalandirira ndi kutumiza mauthenga ndi mawu.
Ena mwa luso lolankhulana bwino ndi mawu ndi awa:
- Kumvetsera mwachidwi
- Kulankhula momveka bwino komanso mwachidule
- Kupereka ndemanga pakufunika
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi kamvekedwe koyenera
- Kuzindikira ndi kuyankha kuzinthu zopanda mawu
- Kulola anthu kutenga popanda kusokoneza
- Kulankhula molimba mtima.
Mitundu Yolankhulana Pamawu
Pali mitundu inayi ikuluikulu yolankhulirana pakamwa, yomwe ndi:
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Kulankhulana Kwamunthu
Kulankhulana pakati pa anthu ndi njira yolumikizirana yomwe imachitika mkati. M’mawu osavuta, kulankhulana pakati pa anthu kumaphatikizapo kudzilankhula wekha.
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Kulankhulana kwachinsinsi
Kulankhulana pakati pa anthu, komwe kumadziwikanso kuti kulankhulana pakati pa anthu awiri kumachitika pakati pa anthu awiri. Zitha kukhala pamasom'pamaso, pafoni kapena kudzera pa intaneti. Pakulumikizana kotereku, uthenga umagawidwa pakati pa anthu awiri.
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Small Group Communication
Kuyankhulana kwamagulu ang'onoang'ono kumachitika pamene anthu oposa awiri akugawana zambiri. Munjira iyi yolumikizirana, aliyense amakhala ndi mwayi wolankhula komanso kucheza ndi mnzake.
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Kulankhulana pagulu
Kulankhulana pagulu kumachitika pamene munthu mmodzi (wokamba nkhani) apereka uthenga ku gulu lalikulu la anthu nthawi imodzi. M’njira imeneyi, wokamba nkhani ndiye amalankhula kwambiri, ndipo omvera amapatsidwa mpata wofunsa mafunso.
Kodi Zitsanzo za Kulankhulana Pamawu Ndi Chiyani?
Pali zitsanzo zingapo za kulankhulana pakamwa, kwenikweni, ndiyo njira yogwiritsiridwa ntchito kwambiri yolankhulirana.
M'munsimu muli zitsanzo za kulankhulana mawu:
- Atolankhani pamisonkhano
- Misonkhano yampingo
- Makampeni achisankho
- Zolankhula zapagulu
- Msonkhano wamakanema
- Zolemba za mawu
- Mafoni oyimba
- Kulalikira M’mipingo
- Zokambirana
- ulaliki
- Kukambirana m'mafilimu, makanema apa TV ndi zina
- Maphunziro
- Kuimba
- Malonda a TV etc.
Ubwino Wolankhulana Pamawu
Kulankhulana pakamwa kuli ndi maubwino ambiri, ena mwa iwo ndi awa:
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Imathandiza podzifotokozera
Kulankhulana ndi mawu ndi imodzi mwa njira zothandiza kwambiri zodzifotokozera. Mutha kugawana mosavuta malingaliro anu, malingaliro, malingaliro, ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo polumikizana ndi mawu.
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Imapulumutsa nthawi
Kulankhulana pakamwa sikudya nthawi. Kugawana zambiri m'mawu kumapulumutsa nthawi poyerekeza ndi kulemba kalata kapena imelo.
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Amapereka mayankho pompopompo
Kulankhulana kwapakamwa kumatha kubweretsa mayankho apompopompo, mosiyana ndi kulankhulana molemba. Pa zokambirana kapena misonkhano, mukhoza kufunsa mafunso ndi kupeza mayankho mwamsanga.
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Zotsika mtengo
Kulankhulana ndi mawu ndi imodzi mwa njira zotsika mtengo zolankhulirana. Mutha kulankhulana maso ndi maso ndi mnzanu popanda kuwononga ndalama.
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Ndi zobisika kwambiri
Zambiri zomwe zimagawidwa pakamwa zitha kusungidwa ngati chinsinsi, pokhapokha zitalembedwa.
Mwachitsanzo, mutha kunong'onezana m'khutu la wina mosavuta ndipo munthu amene ali pafupi nawo sangadziwe zomwe mudagawana.
Kuipa kwa Kulankhulana Pamawu
Kulankhulana pakamwa kuli ndi ubwino wambiri koma kumakhalanso ndi malire. Izi ndi zolepheretsa kulankhulana pakamwa:
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Zingayambitse zolepheretsa chinenero
Zolepheretsa chinenero zimatha kuchitika mukamalankhulana ndi munthu amene sadziwa chinenero chanu.
Kulankhulana kwapakamwa sikungagwiritsidwe ntchito mukamalankhulana ndi munthu yemwe samamvetsetsa chilankhulo chanu, apo ayi, zitha kuyambitsa vuto la chilankhulo.
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Kusunga bwino
Omvera anu sangathe kusunga mfundo zoperekedwa m’mawu olankhulidwa kwa nthaŵi yaitali.
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Sapereka mbiri yokhazikika
Kulankhulana kwapakamwa sikumapereka ma rekodi kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito mtsogolo pokhapokha atajambulidwa. Sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati umboni pamilandu yovomerezeka.
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Ikhoza kusokonezedwa mosavuta
Phokoso ndi zododometsa zina zingasokoneze kulankhulana kwapakamwa mosavuta.
Mwachitsanzo, panthawi ya ulaliki, foni ya munthu imatha kulira ndipo kulira kwa foniyo kungachititse kuti munthu asamamve bwino.
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Sikoyenera mauthenga aatali
Kulankhulana pakamwa sikoyenera kutumiza mauthenga aatali. Zolankhula zazitali zimawononga nthawi yambiri ndipo zimakhala zopanda phindu nthawi zambiri.
Omvera anu angathenso kutaya chidwi mosavuta nkhani isanathe.
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Sikoyenera kuyankhulana ndi anthu akutali
Kulankhulana pakamwa sikoyenera kutumizira mauthenga kwa anthu omwe ali kutali ndi inu. Gwiritsani ntchito mauthenga olembedwa kuti mupereke mauthenga kwa anthu akutali.
Malangizo Othandizira Kulankhulana Mogwira Mtima
Kulankhulana pakamwa kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pafupifupi mbali zonse za moyo. Choncho, n’kofunika kukhala ndi luso lolankhulana bwino.
M'munsimu muli maupangiri opititsa patsogolo luso lolankhulana bwino:
- Konzekerani
- Ganizirani omvera anu
- Khalani omveka bwino komanso achidule
- Samalani ndi chilankhulo chanu
- Lankhulani molimba mtima
- Samalani ndi kamvekedwe kanu
- Yesetsani kumvetsera mwachidwi
- Ganizani musanalankhule
- Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito mawu owonjezera
- Yesetsani.
1. Khalani okonzekera
Musanalankhule, kukambirana, kapena ulaliki uliwonse, onetsetsani kuti mwamvetsa bwino mutu womwe mukunena. Kumvetsetsa mutu kudzakuthandizani kuwongolera momwe mumayankhulira mutuwo.
Mutha kufufuza mutuwo, kulembapo malingaliro, ndikuwona ngati malingalirowo akugwirizana ndi mutuwo.
2. Ganizirani za omvera anu
Kuti mulankhule bwino, muyenera kukumbukira omvera anu ndikudziyika nokha pamalo awo.
Mutha kumvetsetsa omvera anu poganizira izi:
- Zosowa za omvera anu
- Mlingo wawo wa chidziwitso ndi zokumana nazo
- Kamvekedwe koyenera kwa omvera anu.
Kumvetsetsa omvera anu kudzakuthandizani kuwauza mauthenga m'njira yosavuta kwambiri.
3. Khalani omveka bwino komanso achidule
Pamene mukulankhulana kudzera m’mawu olankhulidwa, uthenga wanu uyenera kukhala womveka bwino komanso wachidule. Omvera anu ayenera kumvetsetsa uthenga wanu ndikuyankha moyenera.
Muyenera kupeza njira yoperekera zambiri zanu m'mawu ochepa. Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ovuta ndipo musawonjezere zidziwitso zosafunikira m'mawu anu.
4. Samalani ndi chilankhulo chanu
Malingana ndi lamulo la Albert Mehrabian la 7-38-55 la kulankhulana, 7% yolankhulana imachitika kudzera m'mawu olankhulidwa, 38% imachitika kudzera m'mawu ndi mawu, ndipo 55% yotsalayo imachitika kudzera mu thupi lomwe timagwiritsa ntchito.
Chilankhulo cha thupi lanu chikhoza kusokoneza kulankhulana kwanu molakwika kapena molimbikitsa.
Nthawi zonse mukamacheza kapena mukulankhula ndi anthu ambiri, chitani izi:
- Pitirizani kuyang'ana maso ndi mawonekedwe abwino
- Pewani kudutsa manja kapena miyendo yanu
- Khalani omasuka; musaumitse thupi lanu.
Muyeneranso kuganizira za thupi la omvera anu. Chilankhulo cha thupi monga kuyang'ana pansi, pindani manja ndi zina zimasonyeza kusowa chidwi. Mukangowona zilankhulo zathupi izi pezani njira yokometsera zolankhula zanu.
5. Lankhulani molimba mtima
M'pofunika kusonyeza kudzidalira poyankhula. Muyenera kukhala otsimikiza mu uthenga womwe mwatsala pang'ono kugawana nawo.
Ngati mukuwoneka ngati simukukhulupirira uthenga wanu, omvera anu nawonso sakhulupirira.
Mungathe kukhala ndi chidaliro mwa kukonzekera musanalankhule, ulaliki, kapena nkhani. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi kutsindika mfundo zazikulu zomwe mukufuna kuzifotokoza.
6. Samalani ndi kamvekedwe kanu
Kamvekedwe ka mawu ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakulankhulirana papakamwa, kamvekedwe kanu kumatha kukhudza momwe omvera anu amatanthauzira uthenga wanu.
Muyenera kupewa kugwiritsa ntchito monotone kapena kamvekedwe kake. Kamvekedwe ka mawu kapena kamvekedwe kosalala kamasonyeza kusowa chidwi ndipo kungakupangitseni kuti omvera anu asiye chidwi.
M'malo mwake, gwiritsani ntchito kamvekedwe kaubwenzi kophatikizana ndi kumwetulira pankhope yanu, izi zidzakuthandizani kupanga malingaliro abwino ndikuchepetsa kutanthauzira kolakwika.
7. Yesetsani kumvetsera mwachidwi
Kumvetsera mwachidwi ndi mbali yofunikira ya kulankhulana pakamwa. Ngati ndinu womvetsera mwachangu, mudzakhala wolankhula bwino.
Munjira iliyonse yolankhulirana ndi mawu, kuphatikiza kulankhulana pagulu, simuyenera kukhala nokha munthu wolankhula. Omvera anu azifunsa mafunso.
Kuti mukhale omvetsera mwachidwi, chitani zotsatirazi:
- Pewani kufulumira kunena
- Osamudula mawu
- Samalani kwathunthu
- Perekani ndemanga
- Pewani zododometsa zamtundu uliwonse.
8. Ganizirani musanalankhule
Mawu olankhulidwa sangabwezedwe kapena kuwongoleredwa, chifukwa chake ndi bwino kuganiza musanalankhule.
Nthawi zonse omvera anu akafunsa mafunso, muyenera kutenga nthawi yoganizira musanayankhe. Muyenera kutsimikiza kuti yankho lanu ndi lolondola komanso lokonzedwa m'mawu omveka bwino komanso achidule.
9. Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito mawu owonjezera
Munthawi ya ulaliki kapena zokamba zapagulu, pewani mawu odzaza monga “um,” “ah,” “monga,” “eya,” “so” etc.
Mawu ochulukirachulukira angapangitse kuti omvera anu asiye chidwi. Omvera anu angaganize kuti simukudziwa zimene mukunena. M'malo mogwiritsa ntchito mawu odzaza mawu, ganizirani kupuma mozama.
10. Yesetsani
Maluso onse amafuna kuchita, kuphatikizapo luso loyankhulana. Gwiritsani ntchito malangizo 9 pazokambirana zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku kuti muwongolere luso lanu lolankhulana bwino.
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Kutsiliza
Kuyankhulana ndi mawu ndi imodzi mwa njira zoyankhulirana zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri, makamaka m'malo osakhazikika. Imaonedwanso kuti ndiyo njira yakale kwambiri yolankhulirana.
Kupatula ma GPA apamwamba, Olemba ntchito amakopeka ndi luso lolankhulana ndi mawu. Kupatula maluso olankhulirana olembedwa, luso lolankhulana ndi mawu ndi ena mwa maluso olankhulirana ofunikira omwe ayenera kuwonjezeredwa ku CV kapena Resume yanu.
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