Kulankhulana kogwira mtima sikungachitike popanda kumvetsera. Mosasamala kanthu za njira yolankhulirana, luso loyankhulirana lomvera limakhala ndi gawo lalikulu pakulumikizana kothandiza.
Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti timathera mpaka 80 peresenti ya tsiku lathu tikulankhulana, ndipo kumvetsera kumatenga 45% ya nthawi yomwe timathera polankhulana.
Ngakhale kuli kofunika, anthu ambiri amakondera pa ntchito yomvetsera luso loyankhulana. Kukulitsa luso lomvetsera bwino ndikofunikira, makamaka pa moyo wanu waumwini komanso waukadaulo.
Kumvetsera kulinso zambiri zathanzi zomwe ndi kuchepetsa nkhawa, kuchepetsa nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa, kukumbukira bwino, ndi zina zambiri.
M’nkhaniyi, muphunzira tanthauzo la luso lomvetsera, mitundu ya kumvetsera, kufunika komvetsera polankhulana, komanso mmene mungakulitsire luso lanu lomvetsera.
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Kodi Maluso Oyankhulana Ndi Chiyani?
Maluso olankhulirana omvera ndi kuthekera kolandila molondola, kumvetsetsa, ndi kutanthauzira zomwe zaperekedwa kwa inu.
Kumathandiza kwambiri pakulankhulana kwabwino.
Kulankhulana kogwira mtima sikungachitike pokhapokha ngati uthenga kapena chidziwitso chamveka (kulandiridwa) ndikutanthauzira molondola.
Kumvetsera sikufanana ndi kumva. Kumva ndi njira yodziwira mawu, pamene kumvetsera ndi ntchito yogwira ntchito mwadala kuti mumvetse phokoso (mauthenga) omwe alandiridwa.
Anthu omwe ali ndi luso lomvetsera mwachidwi amakhala ndi makhalidwe awa:
- Mvetserani popanda kumudula mawu wokamba nkhani
- Funsani mafunso ngati kuli koyenera
- Thandizani wolankhulayo ndi mawu otsimikizira
- Yang'anani maso
- Osathamangira kunena
- Pewani zododometsa pomvetsera wokamba nkhani
- Samalani kuzinthu zopanda mawu monga kusuntha kwa thupi ndi kaimidwe, manja, mawonekedwe a nkhope etc
Mitundu Yakumvetsera Mwachangu
Kumvetsera kungabwere m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Zinthu zosiyanasiyana zimafuna kumvetsera kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana, choncho m'pofunika kudziwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kumvetsera komanso nthawi yoyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
M'munsimu muli mitundu ya kumvetsera kogwira mtima:
- Kumvetsera mwatsankho
- Kumvetsera mwathunthu
- Kumvetsera zambiri
- Kumvetsera mwachidwi
- Kumvetsera achire.
1. Kumvetsera mwatsankho
Kumvetsera mwatsankho ndi mtundu woyamba wa luso lomvetsera, lomwe limapangidwa ali aang'ono kwambiri. Kumvetsera kotereku kumaphatikizapo kuzindikiritsa zizindikiro zopanda mawu monga kamvekedwe ka mawu kuti adziwe zomwe wokamba akunena.
Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wina wa ku America amene akukambitsirana ndi mwamuna wa ku Germany amaika maganizo ake pa mmene thupi la munthuyo likuchitira m’malo momvetsera zimene akunena. Izi zili choncho chifukwa munthu wa ku America samamva Chijeremani.
2. Kumvetsera mwathunthu
Kumvetsera mwatcheru n’kosiyana ndi kumvetsera mwatsankho. Kumaphatikizapo kumvetsera mauthenga a pakamwa a wokamba nkhaniyo ndi kusanthula zimene wokambayo ananena.
Kumvetsera mwatcheru kumafuna luso loyenera la chilankhulo mwachitsanzo, muyenera kumvetsetsa chilankhulo cha wolankhulayo.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwamuna wa ku Amereka ndi mwamuna wina wa ku Amereka akukambitsirana, onse aŵiri amamvetsera mauthenga a pakamwa m’malo molabadira mawu osalankhula.
3. Kumvetsera mwachidziwitso
Kumvetsera mwachidziwitso kumaphatikizapo kumvetsera kuti muphunzire chinachake. Kumvetsera kotereku n’kofala kwambiri m’sukulu komanso kuntchito.
Kumvetsera mwachidziwitso kumafuna kukhazikika kwakukulu. Muyenera kukhala tcheru mokwanira kuti muphunzire zatsopano.
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4. Kumvetsera mwachidwi
Kumvetsera mwachidwi kumaphatikizapo kusanthula mfundo zimene wokamba nkhaniyo walandira ndi kuzigwirizanitsa ndi zimene mukudziwa kale.
Zimakhudza njira zitatu:
- Kulandira uthenga woperekedwa kwa inu
- Kuyerekeza ndi chidziwitso chomwe muli nacho kale pamutuwu
- Kupanga kusanthula kwanu kutengera zomwe mukudziwa.
Kumvetsera mwachidwi kungakuthandizeni kudziwa ngati uthengawo kapena wokambayo ndi wodalirika.
5. Kumvetsera mwachirengedwe
Kumvetsera mwachirengedwe kumaphatikizapo kuyesa kumvetsa mmene wokamba nkhaniyo akumvera komanso mmene akumvera. Kumafuna kuti mudziikitse mu mkhalidwe wa wokamba nkhaniyo ndi kumvetsetsa malingaliro ake.
Ntchito monga alangizi, asing'anga ndi ena amagwiritsa ntchito kumvetsera mwachirengedwe kuti amvetsetse makasitomala awo.
Kumvetsera mwachirengedwe sikumangogwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika zaukatswiri, mutha kugwiritsanso ntchito kumvetsera mwachirengedwe mukamamvera mnzanu, abale, kapena mnzanu yemwe ali ndi vuto.
Mitundu ya Kumvera Kosathandiza
Muyenera kupewa kumvetsera kopanda phindu kuti mulankhule bwino. M'munsimu muli mitundu ya kumvetsera kosathandiza:
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Kumvetsera mwachisawawa
Kumvetsera mwakusankhira kumachitika pamene mukungomvetsera mbali zina za zimene wokamba nkhani akunena. Kumvetsera kotereku kungayambitse kusamvetsetsana.
M’malo momvetsera uthenga wa wokamba nkhani, omvera osankha amangomvetsera mbali zimene akuganiza kuti n’zofunika kwambiri.
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Kumvetsera pang'ono
Kumvetsera pang’ono ndi pamene muli ndi cholinga chomvetsera wokamba nkhani koma mumasokonezedwa. Zosokoneza monga phokoso zingakulepheretseni kumva wokamba nkhani kotheratu.
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Kumvetsera zabodza
Kumvetsera zabodza kumaphatikizapo kunamizira kuti mukumvetsera munthu wina koma osasintha mauthenga amene akuperekedwa.
Omverawa angasonyeze kuti akumvetsa pogwiritsa ntchito mawu osalankhula monga kugwedeza mutu, kumwetulira ndi zina pamene akuganiza kuti n'koyenera.
Kufunika Komvetsera Polankhulana
Maluso omvetsera ali m'gulu la maluso ofunikira kuti athe kulumikizana bwino.
Kumvetsera kogwira mtima kumafunika polankhulana chifukwa kuli ndi ubwino wambiri, zotsatirazi ndi zina mwa ubwino womvetsera polankhulana:
1. Amachepetsa kusamvana
Maluso abwino omvetsera angakuthandizeni kuwongolera momwe mumamvetsetsa zomwe zimaperekedwa kudzera munjira iliyonse yolankhulirana.
Kusamvetsetsana kumachitika ngati mulibe luso lomvetsera bwino. Ndikosavuta kutanthauzira molakwa ngati simukumvera wokamba nkhani.
2. Amalimbikitsa chifundo
Kumvetsera kungakuthandizeni kumvetsa mmene munthu wina akumvera komanso mmene akumvera. Kudziika nokha pamalo a wokamba nkhani kungakuthandizeni kumvetsa mmene mungayankhire.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati ophunzira akufotokozerani kuti sakusangalala ndi magiredi awo, simungathe kuwathandiza mpaka mutamvetsetsa momwe akumvera.
3. Amamanga ubale
Maluso omvetsera bwino amatha kumanga ndi kusunga maubwenzi pamagulu onse aumwini ndi akatswiri.
Omvera abwino amatha kupanga maubwenzi mosavuta chifukwa anthu amamasuka nawo.
4. Zimakupangitsani kukhala opindulitsa
Kaya ndi luso kapena luso laumwini, luso lomvetsera likhoza kupititsa patsogolo ntchito. Omvera abwino amatha kusunga chidziwitso chofunikira ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito ngati kuli koyenera, ndipo chifukwa chake, amakulitsa zokolola.
Mwachitsanzo, wophunzira amene amamvetsera mwachidwi panthawi yophunzitsa ndikutsatira malangizo onse ofunikira panthawi yophunzira adzachita bwino kuposa ophunzira omwe samvera.
5. Amapereka Ndemanga
Omvera abwino amatha kupereka ndemanga chifukwa amamvetsera kwambiri wokamba nkhani.
Kuti mupereke ndemanga, muyenera kumvetsetsa bwino nkhani zomwe zafotokozedwa, zomwe zingatheke pokhapokha pomvetsera mwachidwi.
Mmene Mungakulitsire Luso Lomvetsera
Kukhala womvetsera wabwino kungabwere mwachibadwa komanso kungakulitsidwe. Mofanana ndi maluso ena onse, luso lomvetsera limaphunziridwa ndi nthawi ndi khama.
Nawa maupangiri omwe mungatsatire kuti muwongolere luso lanu lomvetsera:
- Yang'anani maso
- Yesani kujambula zomwe wokamba akunena
- Pewani kumudula mawu
- Samalani ku zizindikiro zopanda mawu
- Funsani mafunso omveketsa bwino
- Chepetsani zigamulo
- Yesetsani.
1. Pitirizani kuyang'ana maso
Pamene wina akulankhula nanu perekani chisamaliro chanu kwa munthuyo, yang’anani munthuyo ndi kuyang’anizana ndi maso.
Zimenezi zikusonyeza kuti mumakonda zimene akunena ndipo muziwalimbikitsa kuti apitirize kulankhula.
2. Yesani kujambula zomwe wokamba akunena
Samalani ku mauthenga a wokamba nkhani ndipo yesani kuona m’maganizo mwanu zimene wokamba akunena akunena.
Kukhala ndi zithunzi za mauthenga a wokamba nkhani kungakuthandizeni kusunga mfundozo.
3. Pewani kumudula mawu
Kudukiza wina akadali kulankhula kungatumize zizindikiro zolakwika kwa wokamba nkhani. Zinganene kuti muli ndi nkhani zofunika kwambiri zoti mukambirane kapena kuti simusamala za mauthenga awo.
M’malo momudula mawu wokamba nkhani, dikirani kaye kaye kapena mpaka atamaliza zimene akunena. Ndi bwino kufunsa mafunso kapena kupereka maganizo pamene wokambayo sakulankhulanso.
4. Samalani ndi mawu osagwiritsa ntchito mawu
Zizindikiro zosagwirizana ndi mawu monga mayendedwe a thupi, manja, mawonekedwe a nkhope ndi zina zimatha kutumiza zambiri popanda kudalira mawu olankhulidwa.
Nthawi zambiri, timalumikizana ndi mawu osalankhula mosazindikira. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kumvetsera (kutchera khutu) pazotsatira zanu zopanda mawu komanso za wokamba nkhani.
Chilankhulo cha thupi monga kupatsana manja, kupewa kuyang'ana maso, slouching ndi zina zimasonyeza kusowa chidwi. Choncho, onetsetsani kuti mukupewa mawu a thupi.
5. Funsani mafunso omveka bwino
Kufotokozera mafunso ndi mafunso omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutsimikizira zomwe wokamba nkhani wapereka. Omvera angafunse mafunso omveka bwino pofuna kupewa kusamvana kulikonse.
Muyenera kufunsa mafunso ogwirizana ndi zomwe wokamba nkhaniyo wapereka. Osasokoneza wokamba nkhani ndi mafunso dikirani mpaka wokambayo atatha kulankhula.
6. Chepetsani zigamulo
Omvera abwino amamvetsera wokamba nkhani popanda kutsutsa. Pewani kuweruza wokamba nkhani m'maganizo mwanu. Kuchita zimenezi kungayambitse kusamvana.
Muyenera kumvetsera ndi maganizo omasuka nthawi zonse kuti mumvetse bwino mauthenga a wokamba nkhaniyo.
7. Yesetsani
Kukonzekera nthawi zonse kungakuthandizeni kuwongolera ndi kuphunzira luso lililonse. Mungayesere kumvetsera mwa kuzindikira zimene mumachita pamene wina akulankhula nanu.
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Kutsiliza
Monga wophunzira, ndi bwino kukulitsa luso lomvetsera chifukwa cha ubwino wake. Ophunzira amene amamvetsera m’kalasi adzamvetsa bwino zimene zakambidwa, ndipo chifukwa cha zimenezi, amakhala ndi maphunziro abwino.
Kupatula kuchita bwino pamaphunziro, luso lomvetsera ndilofunika m'mbali zonse za moyo wanu. Popanda luso lomvetsera, simungathe kulankhulana bwino.
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